Put a snow globe on a shelf and look at it. There are literally
hundreds, if not thousands of little individual pieces of fake snow. If you
never move that globe nothing inside it will ever be different.
But imagine for a moment that all the places inside the
globe are not equal. The ones on the bottom might be starved for air and
feeling the weight of those above them. Maybe a few are facing the sun, happy
and prefer not to move but there are others who face the dark and are getting
tired of it.
Well as I said if you leave the globe alone everything
remains the same. But if lots of those little pieces wanted to change their positions
you would have to pick up the globe and shake it, vigorously. Now lay it down
again and all the pieces will be in different positions. Some will be happy
with the new positions, others not so. But a change has occurred.
There in lies the key to understanding change and why so
many people shy away from it. To effect change there will be a period of chaos,
risk, uncertainty and in the case of the globe, if you are inside it, violence.
After the enormity of a hurricane, a tornado an unnatural
storm there is always a calm. The
next day invariably the sun is out, bright and the day appears as if is nothing
just took place last night.
That is the key to understanding change. It will be hard to
deal with, will involve risk, will cause apprehension, confusion and
uncertainly. But, and this is the
single most important part of it, is that nothing will change without the
turmoil. If the globe stays on the shelf, if you stay at the desk of your
unhappy job or stay with the mate you know you should give up on, then you will
remain forever unhappy about the situation you are in.
But if you are willing to take the chance, accept that change
requires risk and maybe something far worse then you will have the chance to
make a better something else for your self.
In the end it will be better to go for it. There is always a
good chance it will work out for you. Plan for it correctly and embrace what is
about to happen.
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